How do we deal with issues? Do we let it go and say if he/she does it again “I will deal with it then”? Do we confront it as it comes so we won’t compile such issues in our mind for a long time and become so vexed that we might not be able to handle the issues properly?
Often times, we say when he/she does it again I will tell him/her, then we keep waiting for the day to let it out , and the day we decide it’s the right time, it gets blown out of proportion and instead of the person we are confronting to correct his/her actions, the person feels hurt and becomes resentful. That is what most of us do, but in my opinion it’s better to handle situations as they come so it is easier to remain calm and in control.
When we are in a situation that get’s us sad or insecure we shouldn’t say it will pass, Please deal with it as soon as possible so you can have rest of mind and not become a person with low self-esteem.
When you are in love and everything goes wrong, it is okay to be heartbroken. Who wouldn’t? but it becomes harmful when you let your heartbreak transcend into hatred and resentment. The best revenge in life is to focus all your energy on yourself. Build yourself, become an improved YOU and most importantly be HAPPY. Your Mr. Right will definitely come and love, understand and support you the way no other person can.
When we keep the wrong of others in our mind it eats us up so let it out please. Never let situations get out of hand before dealing with it.
Everyone needs motivation one way or the other.
No matter how old,smart and rich you are, there is just a time when you get confused or disturbed, at that point all you need, to keep going is just a little motivation from people or things around you.
Instead of getting depressed and all, you need to get motivation from the things and people who motivate you. Knowing what makes you get out of a bad mood is very important. Start today by learning about you,it helps a lot.
Whether its Praying, reading your Bible/Quran, listening to music, reading books, hanging with friends, sight-seeing, adventure, watching movies etc. You need to know what gives you comfort no matter the storm that comes your way.
Self motivation is more important than other people motivating you. Self motivation builds your confidence.
Have a blessed day.
This is a topic that has been on my mind for a while now. What will People say?
When you do wrong people are ready to criticize and condemn you, that has been the norm, but you shouldn’t condemn yourself, instead you should correct yourself and avoid doing wrong things.
You cannot allow the harsh comments of others stop you from living, remember “NO One is perfect”.
You are not married yet, What will People say? Don’t let what people say put you in a desperate situation in which you end up with someone who wasn’t meant for you. You need to be careful of what you do so you don’t end up living your life for people and what they will say.
You are in abusive relationship/marriage but you feel what people will say is important than your own safety, you need to watch yourself. Never allow what you think people will say! keep you in an unproductive or abusive relationship.
The most important thing you shouldn’t ignore is “What will God say”?
The Bible taught us to love our neighbour as ourselves, if anyone claims to love you such person won’t abuse you emotionally or Physically.
You are disciplined and God-fearing so people start to call you an SU, so? Keep been you but don’t be a hypocrite like the Pharisees. It is good to assess yourself and ask yourself “AM I A VIRTUOUS PERSON”.
You can’t allow what people will say stop you from achieving your spiritual,physical and emotional goals( in other words the purpose God sent you to earth to achieve). don’t allow what people will say stop you from doing good to someone who needs your help and your listening ears.
Thank you for reading, remain blessed.
We need our body in shape so we can be at our best in our daily lives.
To keep your body in shape you need to eat healthy, work out frequently, avoid over thinking anything, as too much stress can add extra age to your face and make you look worn out and i am sure no one wants to be perceived as 30/40/50 when you are just 24/33/42.
So always take time out to relax yourself before going back to work and other activities you do daily.
How do we keep our mind in Shape?
This is as important as keeping the body in shape. your mind as to keep been positive always, no room for bad energy.
To keep the mind in Shape you need God as the pillar that holds your life, this is the most important, you need to do things that brings smiles to your face and the face of others around you. You need to surround yourself with minds that are greater than yours, so you don’t become mediocre in your thinking.
Start out today to keep your Body and Mind in shape
What do you believe about your dreams?
Do you doubt yourself and your dreams? Do you let people give you reasons why you can’t achieve your dreams and then believe your dreams is unachievable?
I watched a movie Leap, there was a young girl named Felicie , She longed to be a dancer not just any dancer, a great Ballerina but she lived in an Orphanage and no one to take her to dance school, but she didn’t give up, she didn’t let distractions stop her.
Each day she stood by her dream of becoming a dancer, the Care taker told her angrily that she knows Felicie wants to be a dancer that dreams get buried because of of the hardness of life, brutality and other factors in life that she should give up her dream of becoming a dancer.
Felicie didn’t let the cold talk of her care taker at the orphanage stop her from dreaming, she persevered, and because she remained true to her dream, people connected to her dream started surfacing and finally she became a great dancer.
People that succeed are those that didn’t give up. Never let the word Impossible stop you from trying, you might try and fail, get up and try again.
You need Passion – Hardwork – Patience – Faith- Endurance -Agility to achieve your dreams.
I hope you have learnt something today. Thanks
I am not saying one has to be lazy or fold your arms and do nothing. He who fold his arms and do nothing will certainly go hungry.
I am trying to remind us that God knows exactly who we are going to be and the time we are going to be what he wants us to be, so when we are making plans and working hard we need to ask God to take the lead in our lives.
When we step out to do our daily activities, asking God to take the lead is the best we can do.
A race ran without God is futile. When God takes control of our affairs everything falls in place for us.
“Give me wisdom Lord” This is a powerful sentence. it took me awhile to think about how just asking God to handle your life can change everything for you, with God you work and it becomes fruitful.
How many of us say this sentence when we are faced with situations that are hopeless? Most times we just react negatively when things are not going as planned. Have you ever bothered to calm down and ask yourself what has reacting negatively solved all these time.
When you tell God ‘give me wisdom’, you are telling him to handle your situation that you are tired of struggling, and God is able and he will surprise you more than you can imagine. When he comes into your situation he makes everything you do or say fruitful and blessed.
Have a blessed day as you allow God to work with you. thank you
Adventure is an unusual and exciting or daring experience. To be daring means taking risks, it could be taking you from your comfort zone, but it is good for us to go on adventures once in a while.
Adventure makes you opened to new ideas, and taking risks will become less difficult, if we don’t take risk at all,we might end up regretting that we did nothing when the opportunity presented itself.
Adventure could be in form of doing what scares you the most like travelling by air, sky diving, mountain climbing, camping etc. Adventure can help us get rid of fear or mediocrity, for me i think i need to go mountain climbing, and i need to start taking care of a puppy because i know i am scared of heights and animals, but how long will i allow fear rob me of my peace and excitement.
Adventure is another way of forgetting the issues we have at hand, because truly if we remain in our comfort zone, or keep up with our boring routines, we might not think outside the box which can keep up us from getting the best result at anything we do.
We need to stop been scared to fail at something and then fail to try because of fear of the unknown. e.g. Refusing to start a business you have talent and passion for because you think making profits is difficult,. it is better to try at something and fail, than not trying at all.
I hope we are all ready to open our mind to something new and daring.
What do we call Opportunities?
Opportunity is said to be a time or set of circumstances that makes it possible to do something. so opportunity can come in form of a new job, promotion,a new business enterprise.
What we do with the opportunities that come our way will either lead to success or great regret.
Opportunities can come from anywhere or anyone, so one has to be alert so great opportunities don’t pass us by. Great opportunities are never lost in the hands of the wise. So we need to pray for wisdom to always discern when a good and success-like opportunity comes our way.
Opportunities are golden and once missed might be hard to retrieve back. your vision will shine forth when you find an opportunity and you decide not to let it slide away from you.
We need a moment to rethink, what are those things that you should have done that could have brought about a breakthrough and you nonchalantly missed.
Let’s start to work towards all the good opportunities life brings to us, that involves been always ready and alert to make use of the opportunities that present itself to us.
I believe when we become more alert to great opportunities and we don’t miss it, things will begin to work for our favour.